The hardest part about this lifestyle is finding the right match or sugar daddy. Here are a few tips to help you narrow down your options and give you valuable information about each potential SD!
1. Know what works for you. It is not good when someone cannot describe what sort of arrangement they hope to find. I am looking for fun weekend excursions, date nights, fun texting during the day and travel. If you have no clue what you want how can you find it??
2. What is your age range? While not the most important it can make a big difference to who you focus on. In my experience younger than 40 SD's are less likely to provide higher end monthly allowances. There are exceptions to every rule and I'm not meaning to stereotype but if a guy makes less than $200k how is he giving you $4k a month? So know your ideal age range and desired level of support. Younger SD's may be a great fit for a college girl who wants a more "bf" feel to her agreement. That's fun too!!
3. Chemistry. To be honest it's funny Bc girls know that we are the chemistry. It's possible to fake the funk.. but the best thing is when you don't have to. I have definitely enjoyed an arrangement that was less about a huge monthly allowance and been someone I would have dated without an official agreement. I have found that trusting your instincts is best. If a guy is annoying you via text.. that is not likely to improve in person. Life is too short to waste on bad dates!! Money isn't everything! Lol
4. Safety. There are risks involved with meeting a stranger off the internet. Don't be stupid. Use an app like Textfree or Google voice. Don't use your real name on your online profile. Don't give people your bank info. I use a few select apps including. Be cautious and tell a friend your location. I insist on one public meeting. Trust your gut. I feel like using FaceTime or Skype is also a great way to break the ice and get a more realistic idea of your potential SD. We are all taking a chance. The men we might meet are vulnerable to scams galore. Bring your best to the table and you might meet your next fabulous Sugar Daddy!